SintimSpeaks#20 Ladies & Gentleman know your worth !!!
Hey, I’m back after a few hectic weeks hope you’ll all forgive me let’s get straight into it.
I cannot emphasise enough on the need for a woman or man to know her or his self-worth. Knowing how valuable you are isn’t just important for your own being but more for the relationship’s friendships (or bridges you will burn) and the certain individuals, you’ll entertain in your life.
Here’s why it’s important for a woman or man to know their “self-worth” in life respect is reciprocated so you can’t expect people to respect you if you don’t respect yourself. Many people say respect goes two ways and that you got to give respect to gain respect. But to me what most people don’t realize is that respect also starts from within. If you want others to respect you for who you are, you have to first respect yourself in everything and anything you do in this life.
Secondly, Not knowing your self-worth can land you in the wrong kind of relationships us girls I can’t lie some not all of us we often fall for men who know how to say all the right things to make us feel like we’re in heaven, they are FUCKBOYS !!!! and this is where knowing your worth comes into play BIG TIME because even me recently at my big age of 24 I fell for one Kmttttt but because I know my worth I had revaluated myself and remembered that I do have some sort of sense.
Every woman who really values herself knows how to guard her heart and not give it away or lose herself to just any man that comes along with a sweet lies that is where I made a mistake I gave all my heart away and fell for his “sweet lies ” he could have said he will buy me ship or even bring the stars from the sky and I would have believed it Kmttttt.
Knowing your self-worth also means knowing not to settle for anything less than what you deserve this is when I came back to my senses and said yooooo I do not deserve any of this no matter how much I like you I’m not a dickhead and I’m certainly not gonna start being one for you, this goes for ladies and gentlemen do not let anyone get comfortable with disrespecting you , you are worth more than that!
Another key factor in knowing your self-worth is learning how to say the word NO. Whether it be friends & family yes I said family any woman or man who is aware of their self-worth can put their feet down to say “No” to things that do not positively enhance their life or future or things that just aren’t worth their time. This means knowing how to make the right decisions for yourself and even you make the wrong one you learn from it. when you know what you’re worth, you’ll also come to realise what you don’t want/need in your life. Respect yourself enough to say “No” and walk away from it my Queens and Kings.
Lastly knowing how to value yourself can really empower others around you to follow suit, one of the most beneficial things of knowing your worth is that it doesn’t just stop with you, in life the same energy you give out is what you receive and only when you love and value yourself then will you be able to help and empower the people around you and sometimes people you don’t know . It takes a strong woman or man to help another precious soul out of there, so don’t ever devalue yourself. Instead, rise above everything negative, Rise above yourself, above your insecurities and don’t settle for anything or anyone less than what you deserve because you are worth so much more than you think and God didn’t put you on this earth to be anyone’s fool.
“You are altogether beautiful, my darling;
there is no flaw in you”
– Song of Songs 4:7
“whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you”
“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline”
2 Timothy 1:7