SintimSpeaks#18…You’re right you don’t deserve me !!!

“Lord, I’ve been broken
Although I’m not worthy
You fixed me, I’m blinded
By your grace
You came and saved me”- Stormzy

 

Hey guys I’m going to get straight into it this week, I know its later than promised but as you can see from the title I’ve had a bit of a situation going on but honestly thanks for the support along this blogging journey of mine. As you can see above I’ve quoted the lyrics of the incredible artist Stormzy, if it wasn’t for this song being on repeat plus my beautiful real-life guardian angels I don’t know what I would have done this past Sunday. 

As you know I like to be as real as I can with my readers , where do I even start as hard as this sounds if you get a feeling about something in your relationship , don’t brush it to the side act on it because if not it will eat you up inside as it was until I acted on it … well one of my friends did and came back with receipt’s that shocked the life out of me I mean you really think you know the person you’ve chosen to accept and bring around your friends and family then in a split second it all crumbles . 

At first I did the typical thing of blame myself , maybe I was a bit too much at times , maybe it did come across as controlling but then again I thought if I don’t do these things he may think I don’t love him as much as I was showing him well trying to at least ( yes I did love him) but while talking to one of my sisters that knocked some clarity in to my  not so clear mind at the time made me realise sometimes no matter how many times you overthink the situation or try and compare yourself to the person you was cheated on with its not you it’s the person’s character and the probably will never change so don’t ever blame yourself ,now just because its happened to me I still will never think “ALL MEN ARE TRASH”  it’s just a the way some men and women are believe it or not are its sad but it’s true. There are some really great guys out there sometimes I feel we need to go through things like this appreciate the good ones  that will eventually come more

I will be the first one to say no one is perfect including myself in this relationship I could of handled things better , controlled my temper a bit more , my attitude at times was disgusting , my mood swings at times were ridiculous but there is no excuse for cheating and I or anyone going through this didn’t deservethis  and especially a cheat  that will not take accountability for their actions and then will later play the victim these are the most dangerous kind of cheats sis bro yes men get cheated on too ! if you with someone like this please get out of that situation , it’s not healthy you should know your worth and not let it be okay for anyone to treat you like this I just thank God it came out earlier than later and what makes me even more happy is that he even knew my worth and fixed up his mouth to say “I don’t deserve her , she’s too good for me, I’m a bad person” 

One more thing I have always been happy in my life no matter what life has thrown at me this person I believed was going to add to my happiness let me down but that’s okay because even now you have gone forever  I will still be always happy as I have such a strong support system and God will bless each and every one of them, I also know my worth what I deserve as everyone should and God will bless me with someone that also deserves me Amen!!   

But overall thanks for reading I hope you all learn something from it , show it to your brothers , sisters , aunties , uncles everybodyyyyyyyy lol , I’m really trying to get better with posting more regularly guys ,I will be aiming to put one out once a week also if you are a non-believer and you read and comment on my blogs this makes me even more happy because I know I’m touching you some way or another my blogs are for everybody feel free to comment believer or not . As long as you take something from it that’s all I want !! 

Bible quotations for this week 

 Luke 8:17

There is nothing hidden that won’t be revealed, and there is nothing secret that won’t become known and come to light.

John 3:20-21

Everyone who practices wickedness hates the light and does not come to the light, so that his actions may not be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may become evident that his actions have God’s approval

Proverbs 28:18

The one who lives with integrity will be helped, but one who distorts right and wrong will suddenly fall.

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SintimSpeaks#17….”You reap what you sow”

Hey I’m back sorry for the delay I’ve been a little bit distracted, hence I haven’t been posting as much as I like to, from my old readers to new thanks so much for reading, You guys are too kind with your words and keep me going with your beautiful, kind words thank you all and God bless you all

SintimSpeaks#17….”You reap what you sow”

“You reap what you sow” means that there is an effect for everything people do or say so be careful how you treat or speak on people you come across in life, the effort you put into anything you do will be rewarded appropriately in this life or the next. I often use this phrase as a reminder to myself to keep being kind ,work hard and stay humble. Although the phrase in mainly used in Christianity, you will also hear it in other places. I guess what I’m saying is the general idea behind “you reap what you sow” is that actions will have consequences and the effects of a person’s behaviour are not necessarily apparent right away, that is why some of our repercussions of our choices we make in life come later and when not expected.

let me tell you it’s never ever too late to be kind; you can decide to start a journey of kindness from today going forward. It’s not easy in fact nothing in life is easy but it’s how you handle yourself. Me personally what makes it especially hard is when the same people you are trying to be kind to are the same ones that will go and tell people you are like the devil’s twin; but be kind to them anyway…. a time will come when they will remember your deeds and regret their actions. So as my late grandmother would say to me “Let every day of your life be an opportunity for you to sow kindness wherever you go; you never know who you might be helping, or more importantly, what your act of kindness is paying for in advance”

You will not always hear the words “You reap what you sow” there are loads of other ways it is worded here’s my Top 5 ways listed below:

  1. Everything that you do has repercussions. It comes back to you one way or another.
  2. You cannot escape the consequences of your actions. What you do comes back to you.
  3.  You will see the long-term effects of your actions.
  4. What goes around comes around.

5.Don’t ever be fooled into thinking that your actions don’t have consequences

I really hope you take something from this and teach others because sometimes people will try anything to get you down don’t rise to it, it’s not worth it at all just be kind because the split decision to go something worse back  that could impact on your precious future thanks for reading guys.

Have a great week guys !!

Bible Quotations for this week

Galatians 6:7-9

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 9And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

2 Corinthians 9:6

6Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.

Job 4:8-9

8As I have observed, those who plow evil and those who sow trouble reap it. 9At the breath of God they perish; at the blast of his anger they are no more.

Sintimspeaks#16…. I’ve let you in don’t hurt me

Sintimspeaks#16…. I’ve let in don’t hurt me

God has been prominent throughout this blogging journey of mine and I will always give thanks to him 🙌🏾🙏🏾, THANKYOU so much to everyone really appreciate it and God bless you all ❤️🙌🏾

“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

I’m sure most of my readers have been  hurt physically ,emotionally or even  just come out of a trying situation, and though you know you’ll eventually recover, you still feel pain that seems unbearable, you almost feel like it’s never going to go away let me be the first to tell it’s going to be hard , but eventually the pain will ease and will become a distant memory.

Whatever the case may be for you, you may have been scarred physically or mentally and you carry it with you most stages throughout your life, but there’s nothing wrong with hurting it’s all part of growing up and getting through life. I’m sure my readers have definitely come across the saying “what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger” and that’s exactly it the pain didn’t kill you so don’t let it overcome you.

With that being said that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t allow new people in because of the fear of being hurt or disappointed you just need to let them know as the title of this post says “I’ve let you in , don’t hurt me” and if they have any ounce of respect for you , you’ll have beautiful relationships ,friendships and great memories with them.

“I’ve let you in, don’t hurt me” these words right here, are playing a big role in my life right now (If you know, you know),But I guess what I’m really trying to say is anyone including myself will not find happiness by holding onto a painful memory of the past , whether it be a toxic relationship or betrayal in a friendship, You will only find happiness when you let it go and make room for something better like what’s going on in my life right now (if you lot could see the huge grin on my face right now LOL 😂) . Just remember you never need another person’s permission to let go and feel ok.Just let go of the pain you’ve suffered before but don’t be afraid to let the new people you’re bringing into your life know “I’ve let you in, don’t hurt me”

My 2 mottos in life are:

“Everyone deserves to feel happy”

“Everyone deserves a little peace”

Bible Quotations for this week:

Ecclesiastes 11:9

You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment.

John 16:33

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world

1 John 4:7

Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”

OMGG guys I actually won an Instagram giveaway yes, a whole me it was a lovely pair or earrings from a beautiful company called Beautella’s Boutique I personally love they’re uniqueness they use African cloth to make their earnings and if you know me you know I’m a sucker for anything with a African print I can’t wait to wear these out   I’ve put their Instagram  below please check them out!!! Tell them I sent you

P.s The earrings I won are called Ohemaa (which means Queen in my beautiful homeland Ghana)

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SintimSpeaks#15 …Let them talk

SintimSpeaks….15 …Let them talk

You guys are honestly too kind with your words and keep me going with your beautiful, kind words thank you all and god bless you all ❤️

People are going to always talk about you good but in most cases bad, I know, that is hard to believe but it is true. There are things said behind your back right now that you probably don’t even know about. Things that would kill you if you knew they were said about you. But there is a way to take care of it just ignore it and let them talk, because yesterday (27/02/18) Informed of another stupid rumour about myself I didn’t know nor really care about tbh.

It’s 2018 I didn’t know people at their big ages still  sit there and find time to  make up horrible rumours about people, at your big ages why don’t you invest your time into bettering yourself, find a job, talk about world peace I don’t know just keep my name out of your mouth  its not everyday lets gather and spread rumours about Lisa … you people don’t cross my mind at all, so why do I cross yours hmm? I will never understand why people see the fun in this kmttttt nkwasisiem – nkwasisiem means foolishness if your are Ghanaian you’ll know (Rant Over)

Wherever you go in life you’ll find people that will want to slander your name they will even disguise themselves as your friends at first but, God will reveal their true colours to you. They will try to make people think different of you but you know what the best thing you can do is live the life you are called to live. Walk in your truth in a way that as soon as someone tries to slander your name the person on the receiving end’s reaction is an immediate “That doesn’t sound like them at all.”

We are called to live a life a love, respect and obedience to the one who in this life we live. If you make this a habit of your life wherever you go no one can ever disgrace your name, even if someone approaches them with slander about you, they will not believe it.

Me personally I have really thick skin , and rumours don’t get to me at all  but i felt like somewhere someone needed to read this to know you’re not the only one going through it we all go through it I really hope you take something from this and teach others because sometimes people will try anything to get you down don’t rise to it, it’s not worth it at all

Have a great week guys!!

 

Bible Quotations for this week

1Peter 3:16
Keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behaviour in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.

Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Ecclesiastes 7:21-22
Do not take to heart all the things that people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you. Your heart knows that many times you yourself have cursed others.

Sintimspeaks#14…. Decisions Determine Destiny

SintimSpeaks …. Decisions Determine Destiny

Decisions Determine Destiny … where do I start we are living in a world full of past decisions. I strongly believe that the better decisions you make the better your life starts to become, if you need to cut that one friend cut them off you’ll feel so much better I promise, if you want those shoes buy them girlllll treat yourself. Personally I think your own decision means you’ve made up your mind about a particular thing that needs a course of action.  I myself will be the first one to say I’ve made some stupid, decisions but I did not let them stop me from getting where I am today or where I am going in my  future

There have been certain people and situations that have definitely contributed in some of my major decisions in life even though at the end of the day the one making the decision is me basically what I’m trying to get across is that making a decision can impact what your reality will most likely be. For example, I used to think because I saw certain “friends” talk to their parents a certain way that I could do it believe it or not I tried it and my mother reminded me that she was not the one I learnt my lesson very quickly and never attempted it again LOOOL.

A positive example of making a decision was the day I decided to take religion seriously I’ve always believed in God and went to church but not because I wanted to but it was the norm in my household “Sunday is church day”, but the day I picked up my bible and started to read it for myself I knew I had made the best decision to follow Christ, although I am still learning and there will be definitely be some bumps on the way I know it will be all worth it in the end.

Starting blogging itself is a very rewarding decision I’ve made, using things I have been through from the past to teach and help others has been an incredible journey but, I’ve had the most incredible reaction so far but it has been definitely tougher than I thought. But having the heaven-sent support system and family I have has made the journey that more worth it.  As you can see having people that believe in your dream and push you even when you’re ready to give up can impact on anything you decide to do in life. But the key thing is to keep going forward and trust your decision my love.

I’ve learned so much from making my own decisions in life,  that no one knows me like myself only I know what is best for me so inevitably I can make the best and sometimes not the great decisions for myself, “to thine own self be true”- William Shakespeare, even one greatest poets to have lived said it. I have also learned that with making my own decisions I can’t blame anyone for the outcome when negative but learn from it, but in the same breath I can praise myself highly when I get the outcome I deserve and have worked hard for such as blogging.

One more thing I want everyone who is reading this to know is that not every decision you make in life will be easy and often the hardest decision in life are the best for you in the long run, in most cases you will not understand why is happening but I promise you after its done you’ll be ok  like my mum always says to me when I’m in doubt of a decisions I’ve made “god works in mysterious ways”. Another thing I must stress is that do not ever let anyone make a decision for you it’s okay to say NO although the person you’re saying it to won’t agree or understand like I said before only you know what’s best for you. I really hope you enjoy this post and take something from it to teach others like I always intend to do.

Each day is a day of decision, and our decisions determine our destiny – Russell M Nelson

Bible Quotations for this week

Proverbs 1:5 ESV
Let the wise hear and increase in learning,and the one who understands obtain guidance.

Philippians 4:6 ESV
do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Proverbs 11:14 ESV
Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counsellors there is safety.

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Sintimspeaks#13…. The heart wants what the heart wants

Hey I’m back sorry for the delay been a little bit distracted, hence why I’m posting on a Sunday morning, from my old readers to new thanks so much for reading and encouraging me to keep pursuing my passion for blogging God bless you all.

Sintimspeaks#13…. The heart wants the heart wants

When I was younger I used to hear this saying a lot “the heart wants the heart wants” and I never understood what it meant until now as you may have read in my little intro I said I’ve been a little “distracted” this week, this is because some beautiful things are taking place in my life that I only ever spoke to God about and once again he has blessed me.

I know some of you are reading this thinking she’s probably in love … maybe I am maybe I’m not I’ll leave you all guessing, “The heart wants the heart wants” the saying goes. I can’t I disagree, I mean you can apply it to anything you want to gain from life, if you want to get a promotion, if you want to start a business, if you want to do absolutely anything in life as long as it’s on your heart you’ll get it no matter how long it takes, and the end of the day only God and you know your heart.

I trust God with my heart, if you ever find yourself like I have in the past this in any doubting any situation just remember that God is with you on this and in everything you want to do in life. One day you’ll end up with the most perfect life and people around you that you ever wished for. I know that and I pray that you never loose hope.

The heart wants the heart wants, it really does and mine has definitely proved that this week and on various occasions in my life, I really hope my readers tap into this and use it wisely, I would say guard your heart because although it knows what it wants it’s also very precious, and you can’t be giving to anyone anyhow, you’re not a mug init!!!

Sorry for another short blog post I promise to bring you a lengthy one next week, once again thanks for reading and sharing my blog posts I see you all and wherever this takes me in life you’re all coming

Bible Quotations for this week 

Psalm 20:4

May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.

Matthew 22:37 

Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’

Psalm 119:10 

I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands.

Psalm 19:14 

May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.

SintimSpeaks#12… It’s 2018 … Be unapologetically yourself !!!!

FIRST OF ALL, I’D LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE THAT WISHED ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND I WILL CONTINUE TO WRITE AS YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT KEEP ME GOING!!!

 

 HAPPY NEW YEARRRRR GUYS!!! (BIT LATE I KNOW SORRY !!!

SintimSpeaks#12… It’s 2018 … Be unapologetically yourself!!!!

yes guys be unapologetically you , it’s 2018 this means living  a life that is more fulfilling , being comfortable in your own skin , making more conscious choices in your life that benefit you because your life belongs to you and only you can determine what you will and will not put up with , if you have CUT OFFFFF that useless individual cut them off , that relationship your in is not working end it and get your money up sis , you only have one life live it !!!! and one more thing learn how to love yourself as I have , because at the end of the day the only person that can care for you the way you really want to be cared for is the person who you see in the mirror every morning when you wake up.

yeah … I know your probably reading this saying this is easier said than done but really are truly it’s not that hard once you put in your head ” I am not taking this any bullshit” it will push you to do things you’ll later look back on and say “I’m glad I done that” and not say “why didn’t I do that”. while some people find it hard to love themselves recognising that yes there are flaws in your beauty and no one on this earth is perfect it will give you that extra help, for me personally I have a huge scar on top of my left eyelid and for a long time I was very insecure about it but as soon as I learned to love myself with my flaws I don’t let it get in my way of what I’m doing, to be honest I forget it’s there unless someone notices it.

As of 2018 I want all my readers to live their best lives. smash each and every goal you have set yourselves this year! do as you please, don’t let anyone tell you how you should be but lastly and most importantly BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!

Bible quotations for this post

1 Thessalonians 3:12

and may the Lord cause you to increase and abound in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you;

Philippians 1:6

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.

James 1:4

And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing

YES, I DID TAKE A LITTLE BREAK BUT IM BACK AND WILL PROMISE TO POST WEEKLY AND THANKYOU ALLL FOR READING AND SENDING ME FEEDBACK, WORDS OF ENCORAGEMENT THANK YOU ALL FOR EVERYTHING, AND ROLL ON 2018 BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS ARE COMING.

 

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SintimSpeaks#11 Turning 23…

Where do I start… i would like to thank everyone that’s has shown me support and has sent me words of encouragement to keep pushing forward and not let anything get me down as I start this new journey of blogging, I hope you all learn something from my stories , or even teach others from them as these are my real life events and thoughts God bless you all ❤️ (All of you that promoted I see you all !!!)

-Proverbs 14:1<<<<<<
mSpeaks

Right so December 15th , 9 DAYS !!!!!! I will be turning 23 , I am actually getting old , but I like to say growing gracefully old .  I always look forward to this day as its the  only 24 hours of the year that can be solely about me , but also on the day I like to  look at it as time to reflect back on the year, all the accomplishments I have made and the lessons that were learned. On that  day every year I look into the past and I always find myself saying, "I would have never thought…" or " I really set out what I wanted to do" I always give thanks to God for protecting me throughout year but especially more on my birthday.

whilst I've loved every minute of being even the not so great parts  , I am ready to turn 23 the GOALSSSSSS I have set my selfffff chileee … let me not talk too much as I have written down these goals and working towards them  I  already know  God is working and we all know we can we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us .

So now to my 22-year-old self , you are beautiful , smart and creative , I would like to thank you for everything you've taught me you have shaped me into the powerful woman I am destined to be , Also Lord carry on using me to teach believers and non believers your word , I will always give thanks to you and keep praising your name and I also thank you for what your about to do in my life which is adding another year for me to learn , grow and flourish how I am supposed to .

ROLL ON 23 IM READYYYYYYY  !!!

Now on to Libya as you've all have probrably heard or seen whats going on this breaks my heart and i still cant get my head around how in 2017 this is still going on if you an reader from london and would like to join the PEACEFUL protest there is infomation below THIS NEEDS TO STOPPP !!! IMG_2094[117]<

ible Quotations I based this post on

Philippians 4:13<<<<<<
do all things through Christ[a] who strengthens me

1 Chronicles 4:10.<<<<<<
or you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.

Proverbs 3:5-6<<<<<<
in the Lord with all your heart and  lean not on your own understanding;6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

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SintimSpeaks#10 I’ve forgiven you …. but please stay away from me!!

SintimSpeaks#10 I’ve forgiven you …. but please stay away from me!!

I love you all, you guys keep me going with your beautiful, kind words thank you all and god bless you all

Right let’s start, if you’ve got me on Snapchat then you would have seen I had a really angry outburst about 2 weeks ago and loads of my readers and friends messaged me I was touched it was so lovely to see such people rooting for me. This is when I knew I needed to address this the only way I know how through blogging although I wanted to tump this girl in her throat but like I always say violence isn’t the answer.

Beware some of the people you consider your “friends” some are wolves clothed in sheep’s skin, really read the signs and the things they do around you because I completely missed them at really took this girl as my sister, we used to be on the phone for hours bussing joke, she’d even talk to my mum . she was basically famliy in my eyes , we’d go out to eat , we’d advise each other if we were going through something because that’s what friends do right!!

Little did I know this girl was ruining my name behind my back all of a sudden, mutual friend of ours started being off with me I’d call this girl to ask why she said she doesn’t know, I used to sit there and think endlessly what have I done to these people. Imagine we meet in such a holy place so I couldn’t believe it when I found out it was her in fact I cried as if you personally know me I don’t cry unless it’s something serious.

I cannot stress this enough I do not want anyone to feel sorry for me at all I just want you to read it and take something from it here’s a couple signs that I completely missed , when your friends with someone and they make a comment about something you over look it because their your friend at the time but how many times do you need to do this before you realise that there actually insulting you … “you should wear make up more often” If you personally know me I don’t wear makeup unless it’s my birthday or and special occasion , I don’t even know how to put it on I can hold my hands up that lol , so after like the 3rd time she said it I said I like my face how it is I don’t need make up to make me feel better or pretty enough for you or anyone tbh .

Sign number 2 when they call you and start talking about someone else, this means they are talking about you to someone else, yes, they are talking about you too believe it not even just that they are going back to the people and saying what you said and not what they have said to make themselves look the good one, in some cases they will have you  on loudspeaker with the person they report back to this has happened to me so I know what I’m talking about. yeah, I know mad init.

Sign number 3 when you’ve spent your hard-earned money on something then they insult saying its banter… kmtttt banter where I will never ever forget this it you’ve got me on Snapchat I took a picture of some trainers I bought “Adidas tubular camouflage print” to be precise anyway I put the picture up went to do what I’m doing went to bed woke up the next morning for work. I see a Snapchat message I opened it is says “Fucking Bitch” I said “huh why?” Imagine her reply was because I like them why do you have them, then I started to notice this is not normal friends don’t insult you for not reason especially when you’ve got something they want that’s a bit off and uncalled for.

Sign number 4 this will be the last sign to look out for , as if I write everything we’ll be here for decades,  so the last one is when they don’t defend you when you’re not there but come and tell you what someone has said “she said you’re really rude and annoying” and my reply was “what did you say? “I didn’t say anything because I don’t want to get involved” huh what I can’t comprehend what you just said you claim my friend and you didn’t say anything at this point everything was clear she wasn’t the friend I thought she was everything added up now I was the fool but it’s okay I learned my lesson never to be so trusting again.

I’m not going to sit there and say I’m perfect because I’m not, no one is really but I 1000% know that it’s not okay to treat anyone like this, or allow anyone to treat you like that. As soon as you clock onto these signs confront them and how it ends will determine if they are your friend or just  another lesson learnt .one other thing just because there from the same country as you doesn’t mean they really like you it just a convenience.

One last thing

To all the people you’ve spread these horrible rumours about me to I’ve heard them all I will not repeat on here as it’s absolutely disgusting and i dont know how someone could make up such horrid things , I’ll just leave you to god I wish you all the success in life and everything you set to do goes on well for you but as the title says

“I’ve forgiven you, but please stay away from me”

 

Bible quotations I’ve based this on are:

Ephesians 4:31-32

Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort. Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ.

Matthew 6:14-15

If you forgive others the wrongs they have done to you, your Father in heaven will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive the wrongs you have done.

Matthew 5:8

God blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God.

 

 

 

Luke 17:3-4

3 So watch yourselves. “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them.  4 Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”

 

SintimSpeaks#9 Take the L and move on …. Better things are COMING !!!

 

 

SintimSpeaks#9 Take the L and move on …. Better things are coming!!!

I know I must sound like a broken record but thank you all so much I can’t believe the support I’ve been getting, I am so thankful from the bottom of my heart, God bless you all.

Yes, sometimes take the L and move on, just because you didn’t get the dream job you wanted, secure the man or woman you wanted or have enough money for that one bag it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world it just means it wasn’t for you at the time, not everything in life you want is easy to get and sometimes once you have it it’s not really worth it to be honest.

I’m going to say it again Take the L and move on …. I know at the time all types of emotions will be running through your mind and you’ll be thinking “what’s going on?” “why’s this happening to me?” But just there are think nothing worth having will come to you that easily so if you really want something fight for it within reason.

Say it with me guys better things are coming our way…Better health, better relationships, better finances, true happiness and so much more AMENNN! yes, we are ready to accept it all, I believe that as a christian god is always willing to give us what we ask for if we ask it may not come straight away but will come when you are ready to receive it, I feel like a christian this is one of the critical secrets to being able to manifest what we want into our lives.

Even me I recently had to take a very big and painful L but you know what I’ve kept my head high, kept it pushing and I know 100% better things are coming my way. Sorry for the week break I had blogging I had a hectic and really busy week I hope you all like this, and thanks for all your beautiful words of encouragement ❤️

Bible Quotations I based this blog post on:

Luke 12:22-26

“Do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?”

Proverbs 19:21

“Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.”

Joshua 1:9

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

 

 

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