SintimSpeaks#3 Deeply in LOVE … With a WASTEMAN

WOW so I’ve made to blog three , honestly from the old supporters to the new thank you so much I wouldn’t be able to do this without you guys !!!

Before I start let me make this clear I am not bashing men in any way at all I want people to learn from this , not just to learn but to teach others

Yes I’m saying it not all men are TRASH .. but some of you don’t really help yourselves

“You’ll never get anyone better than me”

The words that stuck with me for years, you can put your all into someone , be the ride or die they want you to be , be at their beck and call , but yet this will never be enough . Let me be the first to tell you there is nothing wrong with you , it took me a long time to learn this I’d sit there and think “what am I doing wrong ?” , “why is he being like this ?” This made me so out of touch with myself to the point when I was angry at myself I’d project it onto my friends… it wasn’t their fault at all I just didn’t know how to express what I was going through.

“You can try and leave , who’s gonna want you….apart from me Kmt”

I still remember how much this affected me and if anyone has ever or is saying it to you get out as quick as you can … you need to “KNOW YOUR WORTH” and never settle for anything less man or woman , you can’t have someone think they “own” you although you are in a relationship you are  still are your own person and don’t forget what makes you who you are.

“Go then , you know you’ll come straight back ”

The day I had enough and left and NEVER went back , although I did feel lost for while i always knew I had God’s love and that was enough to keep me going in the bible it’s says ‘You are precious in my sight. You are honoured and I love you’. Isaiah 43:4 and with that in my heart I knew I’d made the right decision to leave never turn back.

I completely missed the signs , but you don’t need to at all , I know some of my readers aren’t religious but you can still relate

Many times we chase certain people that weren’t actually supposed to be in our lives but God allows you to chase them to show you that they can never complete you. We can only be complete in Christ. You chased after these people and they only hurt and disappointed you. God tries to warn us but we never notice how bad they actually are for us. So God allows them to hurt us so we can learn from these experiences. (God wants the best for each and every one of you. Jeremiah 29:11).

But if you know anyone going through this or even going through this right now I will quote scriptures that helped me

1 Corinthians 16:13:  Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.

2. 1 Peter:12-13 Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you; but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing, so that also at the revelation of His glory you may rejoice with exultation.”

If you know me personally you know I always support good causes and the people of G.I.O are doing a great thing by donating many things to homeless women
If you’d like to get involved please do


I hope you all enjoy this post and thank you all once again for the support and words of encouragement ❤️

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10 thoughts on “SintimSpeaks#3 Deeply in LOVE ….With a WASTEMAN

  1. Omdssss girl!! GOD Bless u once again! I Cry because i understand how far you’ve come. You’re the strongest female i know and yes u were born to impact a nation. I’ve supported and i always will support! God bless u

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    1. Listen you don’t understand how much this means to me especially you’ve been there when I was feeling like this and witnessed the change so this has really touched me and thankyou for the support from the bottom of my heart ❤️


  2. Love this post, don’t let any man tell you that you can’t do better because that just proves that you will! Great post babe!

    Abigail |

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