SintimSpeaks#4 Relax sis … He’s not your bank account
By the grace of God, I’ve made it to blog post 4, God has been strong throughout this journey of mine and I will always give thanks to him 🙌🏾🙏🏾 everyone who has given me feedback, shouted me out, retweeted me and even called me to tell me to keep pushing through THANKYOU so much I really appreciate it and God bless you all ❤️🙌🏾
Right all this week I’ve had “when you going to do one for the mandem Lis” Today 27/09/2017 is the day 🙋🏾
Before I start this is not a personal dig at anyone, this is for you to learn and better yourself as a woman and just do better.
“If he doesn’t pay we’re not eating”
If you personally know me you’ll know this makes my blood boil … what kind of mentality is this, alright yes if he did ask you out he’s probably going to pay, but if he doesn’t what’s stopping you from doing it, it shows your character, and if he’s a serious person it will most definitely impress him and make him more interested in pursuing you further as I said in my last blog post not all men are trash, but some of you don’t help yourselves
“He’s got to look like he earns ……. amount before he can even talk to me”
I’m really going to scrimmmmm, this is another one that gets me angryyyyy. Someone actually said this while I was talking to them this week (I’ve asked permission to include this in my blog post before some of you start) in my mind I was like are you even earning half of this to even be saying that. Sometimes HUMBLE yourself I understand we want some sort of financial stability yes that’s great … but what are you bringing to the table? Imagine you’re married to this man and he loses his job are YOU going to be able to hold it down it’s not always rely on the man … try and be a Rachel and your Jacob will come (Genesis 29 1-30)
“He’s not my type … he’s too this, he’s too that”
Even me, yes, I’m saying it I’ve been guilty of this “he’s too nice”, “I’ll walk all over him”. “He’s too this, He’s too that ” Sometimes give the guy who isn’t your “type” a chance because it’s really true God really does work in mysterious ways, and you never know what it could end up being.
“But all MEN ARE TRASH”
I cannot stress this enough not all men are trash, this was also said in the conversation I was having this week it makes me sad because of how some men are treating women, it’s hard know who’s serious and who’s not but I promise you they are not all like that and once your Mr Right walks into your life you’ll know.
As lady rev Adelaide Heard mills once said, it takes humility to say you don’t deserve my love because of your behaviour but because there is a higher love from God, I humble myself. I put down my pride and I allow myself to love you even when you are unlovable. That is the virtuous woman on display’.
As a woman I believe building yourself is also key, the following bible quotation is something I strongly believe in and is my favourite bible quotation
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.
I hope you all enjoy this post and thank you all once again for the support and encouragement ❤️
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